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some few daily readers of my blog which means I’m not just writing for
myself to read over and over again, at least I’ve got some few mouths to
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Today I will be talking about what guys should expect to get from love and what not to expect.
Throughout our lives some of us guys are conditioned to believe that women love unconditionally. You need to accept that no girl will ever be able to love you like a mother can. That maternal love (hopefully) served its purpose during your childhood. Adults must be able to love themselves before they are truly able to love others. If you are trying to find love to fill a void in your life, you are going to be perpetually empty.
As a child, the maternal love you experienced should have been enough to give you a solid foundation for the rest of your life. It can be painful to accept that we are born alone, and that we die alone. The crux of the alpha attitude is independence and self-sufficiency. You do not NEED anyone. It is important to be able to handle your business on your own.
An inability of a guy to get along with and enjoy women is often reflective of much deeper issues. It is important to evaluate where your unrealistic beliefs are coming from. Do you expect a girl to love you like your mother loved you? Do you need this kind of unconditional love to sustain your fragile self-esteem? Be honest with yourself when assessing the obstacles that lie in the way of being able to live life to the fullest.
The media brainwashes us to believe in a fairytale illusion of what love actually is. This fantasy encourages wimpish behavior to run rampant among guys. Buy this! Buy that! Your princess deserves the world! Know this: no amount of material gifts will ever change a girl’s mind about not being attracted to you. She will accept the gifts, but she will not accept your d*ck. If she doesn’t feel the tingle, you better move on.
Weak guys make excuses for girls (especially if they are attractive). “Maybe she didn’t get my text? Maybe she forgot about our plans? Maybe, maybe, maybe…” The truth of the matter is, if she really wanted to f*ck you, she would definitely find a way. Guys who are “in love” are capable of even further delusion. The rose-colored glasses that they wear often obscure the obvious signs that their women are no longer interested. When the apple of their eye eventually walks out, they grovel and plead. Apologizing for perceived faults and mistakes will only make the situation worse. She must bend to fit your reality, not you to hers. Read Why You Should Never Chase After A Woman
Most of the “love” that is celebrated and emulated by guys in today’s culture are often those of desperation and neediness. “But I love you baby!!! Please come back to me!! I promise I’ll make it work!” Utter tripe. Such beta guys make fools out of themselves because they lack the abundance mentality. Damn it bruh. Know that you are a f*ck*ng G. Go ahead and toss em. There will always be more girls… BETTER girls.
The Reality
People want to show their mates off like trophies and status symbols. Men are with women for their bodies and feminine demeanor, while women are with men for their status. The first thing a woman asks herself when she meets a new guy is “what can he offer me”. She will of course never admit this because it is largely an unconscious choice. You should ask yourself the same question. Can she cook? Does she take care of her appearance? Will she make your life better, or will she simply bring drama to the table? You are above being a person’s accessory.
Love is not logical. If a girl doesn’t FEEL attraction, there is nothing you can do to persuade her otherwise.
I find that game is a lot like turning over rocks. Your game should stay consistent. Not every girl will dig your vibe. Girls that are truly interested will make it easy for you. The harder you try, the deeper you dig yourself into a hole. Knowing about all the tricks and traps that women use to exploit men that I’ve been publishing here on this blog will give you a great advantage. Do not waste your time or your resources. Focus on yourself, your visions, your purpose and your goals and only let girls into your life when you have time for them.
.Today I will be talking about what guys should expect to get from love and what not to expect.
Throughout our lives some of us guys are conditioned to believe that women love unconditionally. You need to accept that no girl will ever be able to love you like a mother can. That maternal love (hopefully) served its purpose during your childhood. Adults must be able to love themselves before they are truly able to love others. If you are trying to find love to fill a void in your life, you are going to be perpetually empty.As a child, the maternal love you experienced should have been enough to give you a solid foundation for the rest of your life. It can be painful to accept that we are born alone, and that we die alone. The crux of the alpha attitude is independence and self-sufficiency. You do not NEED anyone. It is important to be able to handle your business on your own.
An inability of a guy to get along with and enjoy women is often reflective of much deeper issues. It is important to evaluate where your unrealistic beliefs are coming from. Do you expect a girl to love you like your mother loved you? Do you need this kind of unconditional love to sustain your fragile self-esteem? Be honest with yourself when assessing the obstacles that lie in the way of being able to live life to the fullest.
The media brainwashes us to believe in a fairytale illusion of what love actually is. This fantasy encourages wimpish behavior to run rampant among guys. Buy this! Buy that! Your princess deserves the world! Know this: no amount of material gifts will ever change a girl’s mind about not being attracted to you. She will accept the gifts, but she will not accept your d*ck. If she doesn’t feel the tingle, you better move on.
Weak guys make excuses for girls (especially if they are attractive). “Maybe she didn’t get my text? Maybe she forgot about our plans? Maybe, maybe, maybe…” The truth of the matter is, if she really wanted to f*ck you, she would definitely find a way. Guys who are “in love” are capable of even further delusion. The rose-colored glasses that they wear often obscure the obvious signs that their women are no longer interested. When the apple of their eye eventually walks out, they grovel and plead. Apologizing for perceived faults and mistakes will only make the situation worse. She must bend to fit your reality, not you to hers. Read Why You Should Never Chase After A Woman
Most of the “love” that is celebrated and emulated by guys in today’s culture are often those of desperation and neediness. “But I love you baby!!! Please come back to me!! I promise I’ll make it work!” Utter tripe. Such beta guys make fools out of themselves because they lack the abundance mentality. Damn it bruh. Know that you are a f*ck*ng G. Go ahead and toss em. There will always be more girls… BETTER girls.
The Reality
People want to show their mates off like trophies and status symbols. Men are with women for their bodies and feminine demeanor, while women are with men for their status. The first thing a woman asks herself when she meets a new guy is “what can he offer me”. She will of course never admit this because it is largely an unconscious choice. You should ask yourself the same question. Can she cook? Does she take care of her appearance? Will she make your life better, or will she simply bring drama to the table? You are above being a person’s accessory.
Love is not logical. If a girl doesn’t FEEL attraction, there is nothing you can do to persuade her otherwise.
I find that game is a lot like turning over rocks. Your game should stay consistent. Not every girl will dig your vibe. Girls that are truly interested will make it easy for you. The harder you try, the deeper you dig yourself into a hole. Knowing about all the tricks and traps that women use to exploit men that I’ve been publishing here on this blog will give you a great advantage. Do not waste your time or your resources. Focus on yourself, your visions, your purpose and your goals and only let girls into your life when you have time for them.
